Ages ago people used to see their reflection in the water across the ponds, rivers, pools, and seemingly dark water. Then later a mirror was invented as in their reflection they saw their true self.
We as moms usually tend to lose our identity after giving birth as we devote our whole lives to our new-borns to raise them to give them the life which we dreamed of. In this journey, we lose our identity. Who says that moms are meant to be lost in the midst of raising a child? Nowhere is it written that a woman’s life ends the moment they give birth. Rather we would say a new life of women is born with the birth of their child and that is of MOM. Why can’t we see the positive aspects of life here and live both the life as we desire?
This digitally changing world has brought some good news and some bad news, but now it’s on us how to see and reflect our lives into the fast-changing world.
After being a mother everyone sees themselves in the mirror and take the reflection of negativity, be it for body change, getting old, saddened but why don’t we see the best part that mirror is meant to reflect it will always reflect what you see but what matters here considers you standing in front of it a few months ago and reflect what you saw? Your good times, a happy you, a dream life ahead of you? Just take a couple of minutes and think how happy it made you see yourself in the mirror, what confidence it gave you when you see your reflection? Now open your eyes and see the present you. Standing in front of that mirror you visioned the dream of your whole future life and that made you happy but now watching your reflection it gives you sadness? why? Think over it and consider MIRROR REFLECTS WHAT YOU SEE. Instead of choosing to see yourself all let down with this change that has bought you, why can’t we stand there and reflect on our old me and compare with the present one and think of bringing the change to the same women each day every day?
If we are going to see ourselves just like the others then we are leading nowhere. Just like mirror others, see what you show them. If you are happy and wear a smile on your face every morning you get up, others are gonna see a happy you. Make your reflection so strong that it never demeans you. We are the lucky bunch of people who still have control over life and can make it the way we want. If a woman can bring a new-born into this world then anything is possible. She can be reborn as her true self.
Reflection of your true self – “The U in YOU” is what you need to see.
